LOVE SHOT DEAD AGAIN!!!
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What can you say about a girl who lost her boyfriend by the time the two of them were about to exchange their engagement rings?
She plunged into deepest ocean of
trauma?
She lost her faith in god?
She was so madly immersed in the
love of her boyfriend that after he was gone, forever, she wrote an immortal
love story in his memory?
Your perception does matter but
wait. I have something better for you.
Today, I would love to share a “Love
Story” of a brave girl, Simran (changed name) who survived. I know there
are many girls who commit suicide or submit themselves to death on failing in
love. Please do not do anything shameful instead read and forward the message.
The Unknown Call
I remember, it was the month of October,
to be specific, it was 2nd October 2010. I was helping my mother in making
dinner, suddenly my phone rang. It was
an unknown number but I picked up the call in curiosity. I heard the voice of a
boy on the other side and immediately cut the call. I put my phone on silent mode
and told my mother that it was a wrong number.
Whole night i was crawling and
tossing and turning up and down on my bed in the curiosity of knowing about the
boy.
Next day on 3rd October (Sunday)
as there was no one at my place I texted on the number, “Who is this?”
“I’m Raj (changed name)”, he
replied. I didn't reply as I didn't know him.
Later in the evening I received a
call from him and strangely we talked for an hour. We dig into each other’ past,
families, likes and dislikes, friends.
Moreover, I hung up because my
parents came back, but we continued the conversations through text messages.
There was an immense change in me that
my friends were noticing. I was getting more happy, more glowing, and was
spending my most of the time on phone.
The First and Forever Meetings
Finally on 15th November 2010 we
met for the first time. In the beginning I was very nervous but sitting next to
him was not scary at all. He played my favorite songs which he had asked
indirectly over phone. It made me blushed. Whenever we met he used to give me a
white rose and i used to keep every rose with me. He was super foodie and love
to conquer special and yummy food. He turned me the same.
As the time passed we were getting
too close to each other. Texting day and night, early morning meetings and all other
crazy love stuffs made “I” and “Him”, “We”. I bunked my classes and he bunked his
office many a times and went for movies, shopping, adventure etc.
Gradually, time passes the
beautiful memories being captured; the intimacy level made us more close to
each other. Sooner, we both realized that there was a bond built up which made
us fall for each other. The seconds, the minutes, the hours, the days we had
spent together were fabulous and unforgettable. There was time when i need to
choose between my friends and him. We fought, we cried but by the end of the
day we both remained together.
He always wanted me to dress up
like his princess; he pampered me as her “Darling princess”.
The Family introduction
After 5 years of relationship when
we both got so serious for each other, we told our parents. It was not so
difficult to convince our parents as we both were ready as per their conditions.
Like i had to leave non veg completely, he had to reduce his weight and all.
Finally, on 17th November 2014 our
family met and our relation became official. Touching everyone's feet, becoming
center of attraction was such a beautiful feeling, that’s what I wanted.
The Marriage Proposal
On 17th December, 2014,
exactly after one month when our relationship had been official, he proposed me
for marriage in a very creative way.
He firstly took me too India Gate
(I) where we had my favorite street food, amazing photo session, roaming hand
in hand. Then we went to Le Meridien (L) for amazing Chinese lunch. Later by
evening he stopped the car in the middle of Gurgaon Highway and asked me to
come out. He bowed on his knees put an anklet around my foot and completed the
(U) by saying “WILL YOU BE MY WIFE?” “I will love you forever”.
People passing through must be envy.
It was such a beautiful feeling. It was
actually the beginning of my courtship period.
Official Celebrations
After that with a beginning of a
new year, 2015, we celebrated our relationship many a times. In the series of
events like my 26th birthday, our first official valentine’s day,
surprise family dinner, his brother’s birthday, unlimited gifts, beautiful
photo sessions, posting on Facebook, we and our families lived fully.
The Karma
We were supposed to get married on
23rd November 2015 but it was not in our destiny. After very hectic and busy 6
months of courtship period, there were situations when we had lots of fights. I
never insisted him to go against his family just for me.
In June, 2015, a sudden storm of
extreme sadness breezed in our relationship. We were getting detached brutally,
my prince charming was not mine, and my tears were not his. He was not the same
person I was in love with.
He was always proud of my career,
my beauty but suddenly he was getting irritate from this.
So, finally one day we both ended
up the relationship rather than moving a wrong step ahead. It was tough for me
but he had decided that this marriage cannot last for a year or two. I was broken
into pieces. My wedding attire, shopping, wedding venue, my jewelries, my Dream
to be a perfect bride, pre-wedding honeymoon plans all got shattered. Now, it was
all finished. He walked away with a kiss of goodbye and i was standing there,
watching him leave, and burying me completely.
The Healing
I took very long to forget him; it
was very hard for me to survive without him. Apart from all my family members, my
sister and brother-in-law were the biggest support to make me get over this
situation. Months passed, i planned to move on and joined the world of
corporates and kept myself busy in work and hard life.
I always used to say to him, “Agar
tum mujhse shaadi nhi karoge na toh main USA shift ho jaungi, tumse bahut door.”
Now i realized that whatever we
speak and demand from the universe, it gives us the same thing. Finally my I20
came on 29 April, 2016. Soon I’ll get the visa and will fly to USA in July for
MBA to live the most awaited and best days of my life of success and only success.
I, Deepankar Tripathi, wish her all
the best for all of her future endeavors.
The Purpose
I am sharing her real life “Love Story”
on my blog with a purpose. It is dedicated to all the beautiful and elegant
girls who give up their life unnecessarily or get into depression and commit
suicide just for a “Boy” and get trapped into a “LOVE GAME”. The breakup or separation
kills you, threatens you but remember that your life is more
important for your parents, family, and friends.
“LIVE FOR
THEM WHO MAKE YOU HAPPY NOT BY YOUR LOOKS BUT BY YOUR BEAUTIFUL HEART.”
#Appeal
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